Tuesday, January 30, 2007

Please pray for my cutie pie....



Baby Aleia in KKH undergoing series of test for the lumps growing on the left side of her neck. Broke my heart to hear her cries when ultrasound was done on the lumps. But I know the mother feels more broken. Stay strong and we will all pray for her wellness always. Will visit again this week.

Luv you Aleia Shaakira

Sunday, January 28, 2007

Sad news one after another.....

First, my cousins hubby got into an accident with a car and broke his ribs. Now he is on bedrest recuperating at home for a month...

Then heard my cucu in hospital for lung infection about 2 weeks ago...then re-admitted for some lumps spotted behind her ear....

then my bro-in-law has to go for kidney removal operation as the kidney has not been functioning since ages and he just found out about it...and he is the paternal grandfather of my cucu

and found out my younger bro also met with an accident with a cab but luckily he went away with just scratches..but he was beaten up by 7 men at his workplace where he worked part-time as a bouncer...

Life is so unexpected especially if it involves life/death situations... how prepared are we? how will we face the afterlife which is clearly spelled out in the QURAN? did we make an enuff effort to find out what was told, warned and taught?

Ya ALLAH...keep us away from harm and show us to the right path before we have to answer to you...Amin

OLE OLE OLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



YES ! YES! YES!!!! The 'young' lions won!!!!!! It has been a long time since we had our family out for a football match..and yesterday we were among the 55,000 spectators at the National Stadium. The last time we went was the 'older' national team. I was lost among the names of the players except for some familiar ones like Indra Shahdan and Baihaki. But I managed to pick up during the game. It was a 'release stress' nite with all the screaming and ranting and ravings at the 'almost' goals and of course the KALLANG ROAR.

Wasn't happy about the part that singaporeans booeeeedd when the Malaysia's National Anthem. I thought that was not quite right. I mean I thought that we should respect it. But my hubby said that was normal.... but I hope we know where to draw the line.

But in all it was all fun fun fun!! and worth it. hugging and screaming with my 2 boys!!!...What to do..I have boys..got to join them in the fun...if not MAK tinggal rumah lah ye.

Two of my frens couldn't make it...so we had to sell off their tickets...very east...I just lifted up the tickets...and more than enough people turned up...was sorry for the ones that didn't get....I didn't sell at any profit ya....

Hope we get to see the finals!

Friday, January 26, 2007

Supernanny

Been following the show Supernanny for about 3 episodes...but last nights was the most awakening. A single with 3 daughters...and the youngest , about 4 or 5 years old was uncontrollable...each day she shouts and screams at the mum..ranting and raving and throwing things at whatever instructions the mum gave.. and being human the mum loses her temper too at times..and shouts and screams filled the house..The two elder sisters usually turn out to be the punching bag of the youngest sister. So when Supernanny turned up, she interviewed the elder sisters first..and they cried telling her that the screams and shouts between mum and the youngest sister never stops and it has affected them emotionally.

So supernanny did another test..she put a videocam in a room with the 3 kids and asks them to talk to videocam about their feelings. They did....and what the youngest said was 'I hate mum. She shouts and screams and I remember one time she looked me in the eye and said I HATE YOU!'

Supernanny then brought the family together and replayed the tape. Can see how anguished the mum felt and guilty. She remembered that she did say I HATE U once out of anger.

THAT ONE TIME REALLY TURNED THE TABLES AND HAD A DAMAGING EFFECT ON THE CHILD. The mum hugged and kissed the child and said how much she loves all of them the same way. And she tried to spend more time with the kid..really spend time happily...not just be PRESENT! The kids loved it and said 'We enjoy going out with mummy like this. Never see mummy this way enjoying with us!'

Oh Allah...please continuously give me the strength to control my anger with my children and protect us from harm that can drift us apart.

Friday, January 19, 2007

Thank you for......

A heartfelt meaningful birthday all the time. The thoughts and well wishes from all who smsed me...emailed me...and even sang for me!!!....ahhhh all your thoughts count very much..and thank you for taking all the trouble for the prezziesss....thank you for being with me through all these years....


Photos uploaded later ya...lembab tol photobucket!

Sunday, January 14, 2007

Birthday Celebration in Advance!!!


Chance for grafitti!!!

Art???

Had such a fun celebration today together with 4 other family members having bday in January...Kak Zaiton...Baqir...Kak Linda...Nadia!!..

Me and and family was at the celebration venue (Kak Zaiton's house), a day in advance to prepare for her birthday surprise... We had some painting done first though....as you can see above..

Then more of our family members arrived...as we were having a surprise sleepover for Kak Zaiton! She has been busy and tired to and fro hospital each day taking care of her mother...so we really hope this surprise made her day. We stayed over, talked, laughed, helped out with some chores...most of all just be around to cheer her up.

Then the day came!!!...yeahhhhhhhhhhh sumer dapat presents!!..Food was delicious...cake was yummy.....most of all the company was outstanding beyond description...luv ya all...the thought really counts for me to be always included in your family.....sedih ....

more pictures can be found at my couzzies blog , Lifestation...

Ah ni gambar pejens for me!...

Saturday, January 06, 2007

In Pursuit of Happyness

I have watched it...so sadddddd....alot to learn from the show though..suka Will Smith....he is a great actor...

First day Of school

Kinda late ya..sorry...been to busy to update... I mean being a 'full time' housewife for 2 weeks...seronok!!!! suker...nak nak nak

Ok ok...this is the morning of Raiyan's first day of school in Nursery. I woke him up about 9.00 am, tengok how lepak he is... he just moved out of the bedroom and slept again on the couch..


Looking at him, and my eyes welled up in tears ...as usual ibu cengeng....it seems to be so fast that they are growing up and soon leaving...leaving to where I hope where they will be good duniawi dan ukhrawi... I guess that is all what all parents wish for their kids....I just pray hard I dun go too early and leave them to fend for themselves before they are able too...

Ok ok ..enough of sadness...ah this is him all geared up for school!




We went out of the house 5 mins before school reopens, cos the school is just next door... Had to wait for the classroom door to be opened...Raiyan tak sabar...he kept asking me to get the key to open the door for him...he almost merengek...adoi ....Finally doors opened...he entered and he was independent...putting his water bottle on the desk and sat down where the teacher instructed...and they sang some songs..and he was shy senyum senyum simpul sambil jeling at us from the door... seeing that...we left...I guess he will be ok...he will always be ok just like the elder brother...luv ya boys...