what MY NAME means....
This is fun...got it from cuzzie G and Sri...at
linkYou entered: Norhayati
There are 9 letters in your name.
Those 9 letters total to 48
There are 4 vowels and 5 consonants in your name.
Your number is: 3
The characteristics of #3 are: Expression, verbalization, socialization, the arts, the joy of living.
The expression or destiny for #3:
An Expression of 3 produces a quest for destiny with words along a variety of lines that may include writing, speaking, singing, acting or
teaching; our entertainers, writers, litigators, teachers, salesmen, and composers. You also have the destiny to sell yourself or sell just about any product that comes along. You are imaginative in your presentation, and you may have creative talents in the arts, although these are more likely to be latent. You are an
optimistic person that seems ever enthusiastic about life and living. You are friendly,
loving and social, and people like you because you are charming and such a good conversationalist. Your ability to communicate may often inspire others.
It is your role in life to inspire and motivate; to raise the spirits of those around you.The negative side of number 3 Expression is superficiality. You may tend to scatter your forces and simply be
too easygoing. It is advisable for the negative 3 to avoid dwelling on trivial matters, especially
gossip.
Your Soul Urge number is: 8
A Soul Urge number of 8 means:
With an 8 soul urge, you have a natural flair for big business and the challenges imposed by the commercial world. Power, status and success are very important to you. You have strong urges to supervise, organize and lead.
Material desires are also very pronounced. You have good executive abilities, and with these, confidence, energy and ambition.
Your mind is analytical and judgment sound; you're
a good judge of material values and also human character. Self-controlled, you
rarely let emotions cloud judgment. You are somewhat of an organizer at heart, and you like to keep those beneath you organized and on a proper track. This is a personality that wants to lead, not follow. You want to be known for your planning ability and solid judgment.
The negative aspects of the 8 soul urge are the often dominating and exacting attitude. You may have a tendency to be very rigid, sometimes
stubborn.
Your Inner Dream number is: 4
An Inner Dream number of 4 means:
You dream of being a very solid citizen that people can depend upon. You strive for organization and predictable order. You want to be recognized as a person with a plan and the discipline to make that plan work like clockwork.
Alhamdullillah, good traits should be maintained and improved and hoped to be passed on to my children...NOT SO GOOD traits...should be ultimately diminished Insyallah....In Islam already clearly set out how to strive to be good and avoid the ba...just keep the faith and believe in Allah.
Welcome to Motherhood....
To my fren Norazlin in cincinnati. Congrats, alhamdullillah, amin! Embark on the blissful journey of motherhood together with your beloved husband. Hope you enjoy the journey as much as I am! Check out the pics of the baby at
Nora und Stefan.
A suprise blessing....
Yesterday I called my auntie, who is an old fren of my late Mak Senik. She went for Haj in December last year and returned in January. In the 2 hr conversation, she told me all her experiences there and all the nikmat that she felt. Amidst the stories, funny and sad, she mentioned that she remembered my face clearly when she was at Raudhah - makam Rasullullah. And there, she doakan that I have another child, a girl...even though she never knew that I have been wanting a trying for one for almost 2 years.
And now....I am near to five months pregnant....syukur!!!...I appreciate all the doas from all I know. I believe so much that your doas are so ikhlas and real that Allah granted them. This is what I call life...to be loved...to be appreciated...and best of all to receive doas from so many whom you might not even know. And this is just what I want to give back to all fellow Muslims. Believe in it and learn to bersyukur all the time.
Yet another wonderful family gathering
Thanks to my cuzzie G for the gathering for the June babies. Loved the food, the company, the bed (for me to lepak). Next month, my turn!!!! Can't wait...
Melaka weekend getaway.....
Was a blast with my cuzzi G and family, Mak Esah, Cik kimah, BaK and Nur, Bibiks. Syukur, during the drive up, I did not feel nauseous at all but I have a whole bag of plastics stand by. And I could eat!!!! Alhamdullillah.
Just dreaded the service apt that we stayed at, Garden City....sigh will never stay there again. Though I booked the 'Luxury' 3 bedroom apt, the meaning of luxury is not even close to describe it. For those on a budget, I guess this should be fine. But no no no..not for us...with kids around, we need safety latches on the window with no grilles and the door to the open balcony. Too much stress for me staying there.
I wanted so much to make this trip a comfortable one for my beloved relatives. What is the point of going on holiday if we stay in a place that is worst than our own home and PAY FOR IT!!!
Ok ok, enuff of the anger. Me want to plan another trip to KL soon and really stay in a 5-star hotel! Aiming for Mutiara Crowne Plaza again! Hopefully all goes well.
Visit my cuzzie G's blog for photos of the trip cos I didn't bring my camera then.
Kids
Was feeling irritated lately (excuse for pregnancy hormones?) so got angry with Zaidi, my elder son, so in exasperation I sighed "Allah!!!"
Guess how Raiyan, my younger son responded?!
He chanted "Allah! selamatkan kamu!....Allah selamatkan kamu!..."
Apa lagi, kena kernyam tu anak!
Parenting
It's heart wrenching when a parent sheds tears and says:
"why did my children grow up like this?
why do they keep hurting my feelings?
what did I do wrong in raising them?
I gave them my all, all that is expected of a muslim parent!
Was it not enough?
What do I do now?
If they continue to treat me this way, I will leave them and never look back!"
All I can say then was, " be patient, this is Allah's test unto you, pray to him, and he will show you the way on how to handle these feelings"
Then I started thinking....
Parenting values starts when the mother conceived...then does it stop? If yes when? Or does the parenting style changes all the time? If yes, when and how does it change?
Does anyone really knows all the answers to parenting? Does it guarantee anything?
Hmmmm..too many questions....
Ultimately, I always remember and live by this....as a parent, we should set good examples to our children....read for them Al-Fatehah each time after our prayers. Insyallah, they will grow up to be good muslims.
If anyone has more inputs on these, please do enlighten me...
